Thursday, June 17, 2010

I'm just not a dog person?

I try. I really do. I think other people's dogs are cute... but when my girlfriend and I got a house and her dog started living with us, I just... can't like her (the dog). We never fight (my girlfriend and I) but since Bailey lives with us now, it's like, little disagreements almost everyday. I just can't stand that we live in this small house and this big puppy is EVERYWHERE. She sheds like crazy and when I complain my girlfriend simply tells me that she's going to shed even more in the summer. Ugh.



If I offer to make breakfast for Kelly, she asks me to make Bailey eggs too. I feel like everything is also about Bailey.



I just feel this intense impatient-ness when it comes to Bailey, Can't stand the hair, the sound of her chomping the GIANT bone she got for Christmas, the sound of her cleaning herself.



What do I do?!



I'm just not a dog person?

That is tough. People think of their dogs as part of the family. However, the dog shouldn't be eating people food. The shedding can be controlled with regular grooming. Training and patience can teach the dog to do all sorts of things. Sounds like you need to have a talk with your GF and set down some ground rules. Maybe in time you'll get to like the dog better, I hope so because asking someone to choose between you is like asking that person to give up part of themselves.



I'm just not a dog person?

You accept her as part of the family bond in with the dog and trewat her like a child.. My bf and me own a miniture JR which is our baby boi and a JR x Collie which is our little girl we treat them as our children and if u show love to a dog it will show love back



I'm just not a dog person?

sounds to me like you are a little jealous of the attention that your partner gives to the dog.



if you truly love your partner, you will learn to deal with the dog...if you give the dog a chance, you may end up loving the dog too.



I'm just not a dog person?

If it is something you feel this strongly about, I think your gf should be willing to compromise. Maybe you guys could get a dog that stays outside or something. I know how you feel, I don't really like animals either, but luckily neither does my gf. GOOD LUCK!!



I'm just not a dog person?

Ugh, I feel you, and I feel you in the closest way... My relationship with my ex was fine for over a year, then she came home with this dog for us, and everything went down hill from there. I had dogs growing up and all that...



None the less, our relationship of 3 + years, went straight into the trash, because of the root problem that started with her dog... If I would have known, I would have spared my time... Good thing I'm young... Tell her to get rid of the dog, or just leave... It's not fair to you, and if she doesn't understand, know that others will when you tell them why your not together anymore...

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